Violence and cruelty have always accompanied human civilization. Is it possible in my life not to commit a single aggressive act? No, but you can control yourself and your behavior. You can’t just seek peace and quiet outside, in the outside world. You need to start making the environment with yourself, with the solution of your problems.
Instruction manual
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Cruelty is a natural part of the life of the animal world, to which people belong. The desire for dominance, a better position in society, power is inherent in man by nature. In the exercise of his desires, he often resorts to physical or mental violence. At the same time, people understand that cruelty is bad, they strive for peace, but for some reason they do it with the help of global violence, that is, wars.
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To avoid the manifestations of cruelty, you need to understand the cause of its occurrence. An urgent need to be in safety, reliability, constancy lives in every person deep inside. If for some reason someone wants to deprive you of these feelings, you instinctively defend yourself by using all kinds of violence. Realizing the causes of your aggression, you can find another, more constructive way to ensure your safety.
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Take what is happening on the television screen not as a guide to action, but simply as a statement of fact. It is difficult to disengage from the prevailing violence in the whole world. It begins to seem that all problems can be solved only with the help of cruelty. This is not true. But in order to change the attitude towards the possibility of using force among others, one must begin with oneself.
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Learn the laws, know your rights. Respond to cruelty and anger with confident words, in which emphasize your competence and security by the law. Always follow the rules so that you have nothing to blame. A person who is used to violence behaves defiantly, trying to assert his position with the help of force and can’t use anything else.
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Use your mind, even if the situation is such that you are forced, for example, to take part in a fight. You see aggression and also begin to react angrily, the result of these emotions is predetermined - mutual cruelty. Prove your case by legal means.
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Your goal is not to be cruel, you can’t go to it, using the wrong means, excluding the achievement of the result. Fight words with violence and do not succumb to provocations.