Everyone can be in an uncomfortable position. But some people easily get out of delicate situations, while others are so nervous that they further aggravate their situation. According to psychologists, most of all a person experiences experiencing something stupid and offensive or something out of place. Many are also worried when they are afraid to be awkward or if in the case of an incident with appearance. So that such trifles do not spoil your nerves and mood, you need to learn how to deal with them.
Instruction manual
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When a person falls into an uncomfortable position, he wants to fall through the ground with shame. Nevertheless, this feeling is somewhat useful: it makes a person understand that he involuntarily crossed the line of what is permissible. Therefore, in order not to experience similar shocks of the nervous system in the future and not to fall into a similar situation again, you need to be more careful, attentive and prudent.
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Shame is a useful feeling that enables people to cultivate. A person begins to more deliberately monitor his actions and words, and also tries to be more resourceful in order to easily get out of awkward situations. In addition, the feeling of awkwardness shows that you are not indifferent to the people around you, because you do not want to hurt their feelings. So, you cannot be blamed for the callousness and callousness to people.
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First of all, one should be condescending to oneself. People who take themselves too seriously make high demands on themselves and take to their hearts all embarrassing situations, and they most often fall into them. He is too strict about himself, is afraid to get into an uncomfortable situation. Therefore, he begins to get nervous, lost and can often make mistakes.
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Remember, any person, including you, has the right to miss and make a mistake. Become more tolerant of yourself and the people around you. Do not constantly scroll through the incident in your mind, this will only worsen your nerves and self-esteem. You should also not constantly engage in self-criticism - this will prevent you from communicating with other people.
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The best and most reliable way to get rid of embarrassing situations is a sense of humor. This feeling will not only defuse the current tense situation or the delicate situation, but also greatly facilitate your life. The ability to laugh at one’s shortcomings and mistakes is a sign of a healthy human psyche. To be able to more easily and with humor relate to various incidents is a valuable quality that can help you more than once. With the help of humor, you can disarm your ill-wishers who are ready to let go of any taunts addressed to you.
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If you said something ambiguous or out of place that your opponent might misinterpret, do not pay much attention to this. Correct the mistake with a smile or joke about it, and then continue to say that nothing special happened. Or simply ignore the misunderstanding, as if it did not exist. If he does smile, support him and laugh with him. Believe me, if you do this, over time awkward situations will cease to pose any problem for you.
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In the case when in a conversation you inadvertently hurt the feelings of another person, just sincerely apologize to him. For example, your boss accidentally heard you criticize him harshly. Well, you have to apologize, and then you need to frankly add that you do not like his leadership methods. The main thing is not to fuss and not fawn, it will only worsen the situation. But you will see that you should not say something negative about a person with other people. Draw conclusions from the inconvenient situation that has arisen so as not to repeat such mistakes, and then just don’t think about it and live calmly on.
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Having made any mistake, a person may think that now everyone will make fun of him. But this is not so. As psychologists say, an awkward and somewhat embarrassed person causes sympathy among others. In addition, people are too busy with their problems to constantly recall your oversight. Therefore, over time, everything will be forgotten.
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Out of any situation allows a person such a quality as resourcefulness. Anyone who does not make excuses due to embarrassing situations and takes them calmly and with humor looks worthy.