Parents and children do not always understand each other. Despite their love and good relations, their vision of happiness, the ways and methods of achieving it are different, sometimes mutually exclusive. What if you need a PC to complete your life, and your parents consider this a harmful and unnecessary item? How to persuade them to buy a computer?
Instruction manual
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Understand why parents do not want to buy a computer? Perhaps you devote too little time to lessons, and with the advent of a new toy your performance will naturally decrease. Think about the concerns that parents have. They may worry that the computer will spoil your health, distract you from real life and communication with peers, bring discord to your family and wean you to do household chores and help dad and mom. Or it may be easier and parents simply do not have money to buy. It is necessary to understand that parents do not draw bills, but earn money, sometimes denying themselves something for the sake of the happiness of their child.
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Think about how you can resolve the concerns of parents. If they are worried about caring for their beloved dog, promise to walk the dog no matter what. Give up your pocket money for a while and purchase a third pair of sneakers to buy a computer.
Resolving fears, do not cheat parents. If you promise to monitor performance and play games only when the lessons are done, keep your word. Do not try your luck just to get another toy.
If the parents initially refuse, take this decision without emotion, calmly. Do not heat the atmosphere, do not cry and do not get angry. By doing so, you exclude the onset of conflict, submit to parental authority. This will make it possible to easily return to this topic again.
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Come up with good reasons and good reasons to buy a computer. Try to find not only your benefit, but also find the benefits of this acquisition for the whole family. Make a list and rely on the list the next time you talk. By this behavior you will prove to be an adult.
Prove to your parents that the computer is not a toy, but a necessary and important thing in the house. Mentally swap places with parents and understand what arguments may prove to be significant for them.
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Look for a compromise with your parents. You may be able to earn some money so that dad and mom add funds to the purchase.
Do not be discouraged if you can’t get what you want. Remember that parents only want the best for their child. Perhaps you really should wait with a purchase or purchase a model easier and cheaper.