A person who has learned to value himself is generally much more successful and harmonious. The thing is that, fairly assessing ourselves, we relate to everything and everyone around us in the same way, and this is the key moment and the secret of happiness.
Instruction manual
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To learn to value yourself, you first need to love yourself. But not with that selfish love, but simply with the understanding that you are alone, you are unique, and everything that you are doing now, you are doing for yourself. Of course, there are still close ones, there are friends, but admit, first of all, you are calmer and happier when they are doing well. Self-love is the key to love for everyone else.
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You have thousands of plans, deeds, ideas, and you strive to fulfill it soon. You have reached one, go right to the next, and so on. Stop. Thank yourself for what you have already done in full. Enjoy the moment of your little triumph, taste the aroma of victory. After all, isn’t that why you went so long? Otherwise, the main idea of achievements disappears and a meaningless race begins.
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This rule applies not only to big things, but also to the daily schedule. If you know how to work, then learn to relax. Appreciate not only your professional skills, but also your hobbies, your body, your loved ones, your personal space. All this should be in your life, and due attention should be paid to everything. After rest, it’s always better to work, so why not take a bike ride for a mini-weekend and then have a picnic with friends? After all, you deserve to appreciate your work.
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Stop comparing yourself to anyone else. And it doesn’t matter, the object of comparison is superior to you in something or, conversely, inferior. In the first case, you just get upset and devalue yourself in vain, and in the second, you become proud, which is also not very useful, as it stops development. Understand that everyone has their own unique destiny and their own unique path, so why compare, if you will never be him, and he will be you.
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Do not sit idle. This is another facet of personal underestimation. This happens when a person does not see or does not want to see his obvious abilities and talents and, instead of spending time on business, spends it in vain. Such people cannot appreciate themselves and burn their life, just being lazy to create something. But it is necessary to gain courage, and most importantly, to begin, finally, to value yourself, and then the internal forces available in a person will tell you the right way.