Conversation is the main form of communication between people. In a conversation, we reach compromises, agree on joint work, and receive information. The main flow of information in a conversation is verbal. It includes the actual words, the pace of speech, the timbre of the voice, intonation and other phonetic features. The result of your appeal depends on the ability to talk freely with people
Instruction manual
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Listen to the other person carefully. Approximately 20% of all people have real listening skills, but the interest in your eyes will compose the person you are talking to, will inspire confidence and desire to open up.
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Copy the manner of your interlocutor. As a rule, this is obtained intuitively. We are faster or slower. To succeed, speak in a conversational manner.
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If the interlocutor is wrong, correct him. But don't be too harsh: start the monologue with praise, then note the flaw itself. Suggest remediation methods. End your speech with another compliment to create a favorable impression.
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Be ironic. An appropriate joke can defuse the situation, but do not abuse this tool, especially if you do not know the person you are talking to. You can hurt him or just not make an impression.