The initiative in acquaintance and the right of final decision, as a rule, is a man. However, often representatives of the strong are shy and do not risk starting a relationship. If you feel sympathy and understand that your feelings are mutual, start talking first.
Instruction manual
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If the conversation is in the company, just go to the person. Stand nearby, introduce yourself if you are not familiar by name. Tell us how you decided to come to the meeting and how you know its organizers. If circumstances do not allow this, start with an appropriate joke.
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Continue the conversation. Remember the jokes. Do not be afraid to seem stupid, self-irony always causes respect. In some cases, men generally prefer to deal with a stupid woman - this puts them one step higher and raises their self-esteem.
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Pay attention to the similarities and differences in characters, as far as possible at the first meeting. There should be more similarities. Often at the time of meeting only they appear.
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In between, ask if he has a girlfriend. If there is, then do not rely on the development of a romantic relationship, calm down on friendship. If he is free, then boldly invite him to meet next time somewhere else. Listen to his wishes to the meeting place, offer your own. Swap goodbye phones.