Sometimes a person realizes that in his life, something went wrong. And begins to dream of changing her for the better. But either lazy, putting off the beginning of a new life the next day, or does not know where to start the change. But, in principle, it is quite possible to do this if you really want to.
Instruction manual
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To begin with, think about why you so want to change your life? What exactly does not suit you now, and what do you want from change? Write down all these thoughts and wishes on a piece of paper. After that, think about how all the possible changes will affect you and your loved ones. What will they get from this: negative or, conversely, positive? If you think that changing your life will bring them a negative impact, try to find a way to minimize it. Then make the decision when you are sure to start a new life. What will you need to make your plans a reality?
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In order to more realistic approach to solving the problem, identify your priorities. What do you want to achieve specifically in the near future, and what in a few years? Think about the obstacles that may arise when implementing the plan and what you need to do to eliminate them.
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Try to stop being offended by the past. Release all resentment. You should get rid of all the "garbage" that has accumulated in the shower. Try to be more optimistic. Learn to enjoy the little things. Constantly inspire yourself with the idea that you will succeed by programming yourself to succeed.
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If you have financial capabilities, take care of external changes. Make an apartment repair, get new furniture. Try to get rid of what will remind you of the old life. You can also do your own appearance. Change the image completely. A new person will appear before you, with a new unfamiliar life. And it will be much easier for you to transform life, seeing in yourself a completely different personality.
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Change your habits in everything, even in nutrition. Are you used to drinking cream coffee in the morning? Replace it with green tea. Have you been reading detective stories all your life? Try science fiction. Every day you go to work on the same route? Change it.
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Remember your unfulfilled desires and put them into practice. Have you dreamed about big sport? Of course, you are unlikely to be able to become a champion now, but no one will stop you from surrendering to your passion and enrolling in the sports section.
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Where to begin? It's easy to say, "Change your life for the better." And if everything collapses? And if I am already 40 years old? And if you try? At least from a feeling of confidence that tomorrow life does not end and we need to figure it out.
Useful advice
How to change your life? First of all, you need to start with thoughts. How to work with thoughts, read here. Changing thoughts gives a completely different worldview. For those who have decided and want changes in their lives, you just need to start writing your story regardless of your age. In fact, changes in your life should begin with the words “I have to” And be patient, because in one night you will not be able to change your life, but you will be able to change its direction.