In friendship, understanding, support, the ability to sympathize, and the ability to share joy with a person are important. To maintain friendships, you need to see a loved one from time to time. But what if this person occupies most of your living space?
Instruction manual
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If a friend complains about a bitter fate and bad luck, sympathize, try to calm. If she asks you for advice, give it to her. But having felt the disposition, she intentionally or without noticing it can resort to your vest more and more often. Before you take decisive action, carefully monitor her behavior the next time you wipe her tears.
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If she listens to your advice, but she does it her own way, and each of your meetings follows the same scenario, explain to her that you also have a personal life. She nods her head knowingly, but the next day sits in your kitchen again? Listen with chill, while doing your own thing. Maybe she will call you an insensitive person, thereby making an attempt to attract your attention, or maybe she will slowly slip through the door - one way or another, she will leave.
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Annoying friends, most likely, are just very lonely people, not without egoism. To one degree or another, it is present in every person. To limit communication with a sticky girlfriend, it’s not a sin to remember your own part of egoism - self-love. If visits or endless phone calls have become a nightmare for you, learn to tell them a solid no. Do not try to avoid meetings or hide away, at the cinema, at home. Just refuse.
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Annoying people cannot do without the support and approval of another person. As a rule, they feel comfortable with people with a soft character who "do not give up in difficult times" and are ready to open the doors at any time of the day. It turns out that the victim is not the "poor sheep", but those who take them under the wing. If you feel uncomfortable with these "friendly" relationships, become a boring and uninteresting person for her. And then she already feels discomfort and quickly retreats in search of a new vest.