Sometimes we want to attract as much attention as possible, and sometimes vice versa - we want to become an "invisible man." And in such cases, the question of how to be invisible to others becomes extremely relevant.
Instruction manual
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The first thing that attracts the attention of others is the appearance of the person. Therefore, in order to "merge with the landscape, " it is necessary to exclude everything for which "the eye clings." Bright clothes or accessories, spectacular hairstyles, manicures, cosmetics, jewelry - all this must be forgotten. The ideal option is clothes of medium quality, discreet colors (gray, dark blue, brown), not emphasizing the figure. For example, slightly baggy jeans and a dull plain pullover plus neutral shoes. Bright hair color or a stylish haircut can be hidden under a dark knitted hat by pulling it slightly on your forehead. This "fancy dress" is enough to get lost in the crowd - unless, of course, you attract attention with your behavior.
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Do not make sudden movements, do not make loud noises and try not to reflect emotions on your face. Loud laughter, expressive speech, active facial expressions, sweeping gestures - all this also attracts attention.
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As a rule, people pay attention to those who are "open to the world" - and if you show complete disinterest, you will most likely reciprocate. Demonstrate self-absorption: fast gait, head slightly lowered, look under your feet. Indoors, sit in a corner or against a wall, while you can immerse yourself in a book or PDA.
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If you need to communicate with people - be passive. Do not look at the interlocutor, do not take initiative in the conversation. At the same time, you should not emphasize “leave the conversation” - monotonously assent, agree monosyllabically, shrug. In this case, your behavior will not cause irritation - but also the desire to continue communication, too. And it is unlikely that your interlocutor will be able to remember you in a day or two.