What are dreams? They are sublime and noble, bright and colorful, bright and airy. Most often, they are connected with the fact that a person is currently lacking, but what would he long for. And yet, far from always dreams come true.
Most people almost always have something missing - wealth, fame, mutual love, recognition of personal merit, career success, etc. No matter how upset the applicant is the lack of the desired time, it, as a rule, by its very prospect gives a powerful incentive to development, moving forward.
It is noteworthy that a lot of what a person dreams of, whether things, feelings or conditions, upon closer examination may not be necessary for him at all. That is, he can easily do without them. Moreover, their presence would not only not make him happy, but in the end would be something superfluous, useless, unnecessary.
In order not to be upset about unfulfilled desires, it is worth accepting that at any moment of your life you have exactly that and exactly in such quantity as you need it. If something that you think is very important is still missing, you may not really need it. Such a position, at least, allows you to get rid of any insults, regrets, self-accusations and disappointments.
Often the most important mistake of a person who has gotten lost in his so-called dreams is that he constantly compares himself with others. He envies, looks back at others, strives to ensure that he has everything “like everyone else”. Otherwise, his life seems to him unsuccessful, wrong and unsuccessful - and maybe even devoid of meaning.
In this case, it is necessary to understand that each person should have his own path, his own level. It is equally important to accept with gratitude what is available at the moment; abandon stereotypes imposed by society on the topic of what is a “happy life”. Perhaps what will be “happiness” for one will only hinder the other from realizing his cherished dreams. Accept yourself and your current achievements as a given, unconditionally and with love.
So you have to have your own plan. Your own path, along which you and only you must independently pass, not following anyone, not trying to meet anyone's expectations and not imitating anyone. If the dream stubbornly "does not come true", try revising it for realism and expediency for you personally.
By the way, in order to abandon your dream, sometimes you need no less courage than its realization. Sometimes it may be necessary to accept that there are more pressing concerns in life, such as, for example, young children or sick parents that need to be taken care of. Or honestly admit to myself that there was not enough courage, perseverance, knowledge. In any case, when some dreams remain behind the scenes, you should not make a tragedy out of it.
In general, dreams, regardless of their degree of attainability, are designed to fill life with meaning, guide and inspire. You can just close your eyes and imagine your dream in all the smallest details. “True to life, ” even if only in imagination, she is already able to decorate the grayness of everyday life with all the colors of the rainbow.