Play snowballs, take pictures of snowy trees, make a bird feeder, write a letter to Santa Claus, make a declaration of love - all these little joys you can make in the past year.
To prevent the festive clutter from driving you crazy, outline a list of tasks that you would like to implement these days. Do not forget about purchasing products and purchasing gifts, sending greeting cards and calling friends. Divide your plans into important and not very important, mandatory and secondary. It will be easier for you to “walk” through a pre-compiled list, rather than rushing from side to side from disorder and uncertainty.
Get rid of unnecessary relationships for you, stop them. Be courageous and admit to the person that in the continuation of your connection you do not see any meaning or any positive prospects. Reduce your obsolete romance or friendship to the finale. It is possible that your words will sober up your friend and make him think if he would like to lose you. In any case, having expressed your position on the basis of the current situation, now you can freely visit discos, parties, walk with anyone, without reporting to anyone. Your chances of meeting and meeting a normal person who is right for you will also increase.
Take a step towards reconciliation if you had a fight with someone close to you, quarreled with someone you love because of trifles. Do not drag old problems, grievances and quarrels in the New Year. This date is a great occasion to reunite your bonds, once so strong and so shaky now. The reason for trying to unobtrusively resume communication, you can be anything. Ask to help you bring the Christmas tree home or throw away the old one, choose gifts for mutual friends, or directly congratulate them.
Do not be discouraged if something is not going exactly as you wanted. Even if you dreamed of celebrating the New Year at a ski resort, together with your loved one or in a chic dress from the fashion collection, but didn’t even have time to think over the holiday menu, this is not a reason to be upset. Do not make a tragedy out of trifles: let the invited friends get stuck in a traffic jam, the goose is burnt, and the tree crumbles, create a holiday from what is, for yourself and for those who are nearby.
Try to keep the promises you have ever made to yourself and other people and have not kept them. Get rid of the “tails” at work and school, review the mail and answer those to whom you have been putting off answering for a long time. If for some reason you cannot fulfill a promise, honestly admit it. It’s too late to postpone “for tomorrow” and “on the first day” - the New Year is on the nose.
Pay off debts and deal with your debtors. Return the money that you once borrowed from someone, and ask them to return the money of the people who took it from you. Otherwise, the feeling that you owe someone or owe someone will drag you into the past, preventing you from starting a new year with a pure soul. By the way, New Year’s expenses can be a convenient occasion to inquire about the terms of debt repayment.
Put things in order in the house, get rid of old unnecessary things, wipe the dust. Carry out an audit in the refrigerator and discard those products whose expiration date has long expired or that have simply deteriorated. Look through the dishes and put in the trash cups and plates with broken edges. Also review your wardrobe and free your wardrobe from things that you have never worn this year. All this will serve as an occasion to acquire new dishes in the future and buy new clothes.
Year is a thing of the past, and this is a good reason to think about the future. Designate for yourself your desires and life aspirations, set goals and objectives, or refresh in your memory what you once planned. Fix it on paper, hang it in a prominent place and begin to take the first steps to the implementation of the plan. New Year is a time of magic, miracles and coincidences, and if you really expect something, it will certainly come into your life.
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