If you do not love your pregnant wife, you have several options for solving this problem. But no one but yourself can make the right choice.
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To think. First of all, about the child. Are you really ready to give up life with your baby when he is born. If you do not love his mother, this is not a reason to leave. You can stay in a couple for the sake of the baby, because he needs the care and care of both parents. If you have an even and normal relationship with your expectant mother, there is nothing wrong with living together without love. It is possible that when a child is born, you look at his mother with completely different eyes.
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To live separately. One of the best options for checking feelings is to break up for a while. It is possible that in connection with such major changes in life as the pregnancy of your spouse, you only think that you have no love. Live some time separately. In order not to severely injure your wife, you can simply refer to a business trip. Test your feelings. If you really do not care about your spouse, she does not cause you any emotions, then it is possible that you should get a divorce. If you do not stop thinking about this woman, worry about her and miss her, do not attribute this to a banal habit. This is love. The desire to care, protect and preserve is not a habit and attachment, but a really strong and deep feeling.
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Get a divorce. If your relationship is full of scandals and reproaches, and love has not lived in your family for a long time, the child will not fix it. Divorce your wife to give a new and better chance not only to yourself, but also to her. Divorce does not in any way remove your parental obligations. The future baby is not to blame for the fact that your personal relationship with his mother failed. In the end, caring for a child can unite you in the future. When divorcing a pregnant wife, treat her respectfully and carefully. After all, she wears under the heart of your baby, and this imposes obligations on you - to care for and protect this woman, even if there is no love.
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To live on. Trite, but many families live even when there is no love between spouses. If your wife is pregnant, and you do not love her at all - this is not a reason to get divorced. Think about what marriage gives you and what divorce will give you. Usually the latter takes a lot of strength and nerves. It is possible that a measured and habitual life is a much more attractive option than the unknown after a divorce. Having a baby in a couple where there is no love can be a salvation. After all, caring for a tiny baby can bring parents together.