Few things can violate partnerships to such an extent as treason. According to experts, about 60% of married men and 40% of married women have ever had extramarital affairs. However, only less than 10% of people are divorced due to treason.
Treason is not the end. Although cheating has a destructive effect on relationships, it can be experienced even if it takes a long time. Infidelity is "curable." Even if this may seem unbelievable, just the desire of the partners is enough for the relationship to function and continue after the betrayal took place.
Here are the steps that can help you in case of treason on your part:
1. Be honest about your romance. If you lie and untruth comes to light later, the newly built trust will survive another serious blow. Women want to know exactly what happened. If you refuse to answer questions, thereby only annoying her curiosity and imagination. She will imagine what did not happen. Your partner has the right to an honest, open conversation.
2. Try to find the cause of your misconduct together. If it is in discontent in one particular area, it is time to start work on fixing the errors. However, remember that desire must come from both of you.
3. Be prepared for outbursts of emotions and affective answers. Recognize that your partner is entitled to them. Let her express her feelings, emotions and thoughts.
4. She may want to spend some time separately from you. Let her do it.
5. Ask her what you can do to get her to trust you again. Show her that you are seriously interested in this.