Promises and reality do not always coincide; not every person is able to realize his words. But there are people whose word is very valuable, and even if it costs a lot of effort, they still fulfill their plan. Learning to understand this is not difficult, it is important not to have too high expectations.
Promises are rarely given just like that, much less always just for fun. A variety of motives may lie behind them. Lovers often promise to make the life of a loved one beautiful, and they do not lie, they believe that they can create an ideal future. There are people who promise in exchange for something, someone needs help, someone longs for fame or money. It is important to understand what motives motivate a person to learn in advance about the implementation of his words.
Words and deeds
If you know little about a person, if you communicate recently, do not have high hopes for him. Of course, others can convince him of his honesty and fidelity to the word, but this is not enough. Rely on your experience, listen to your feelings and wait for action. Believe is only realized. Having heard about the upcoming actions, do not rely too much on the implementation, sometimes you should even play it safe. One can speak about the reliability of a person only after he has brought a lot to life.
Big words can only be fiction, so try to find out the details, if they promise you something, specify how this will be implemented. Sometimes it’s easy to verify the truth, because in the little things a person can get confused if they are fiction or a lie. But you don’t need to tell a person in the eye that he will not be able to, do not deprive yourself and his chance, but be careful, look for other opportunities.