Today it is very difficult to meet real friendship. Unfortunately, in our time there is a lot of betrayal. You can’t name each one you meet, it is not in vain that there is such a saying: "One friend, and the rest are friends!"
For many years now, many people have been arguing about the existence of heterosexual friendship. And their opinion is divided 50 to 50. Someone is sure that it exists, and is sure that each other will not betray the other, will not lead the guy / girl away. And someone proves the opposite, believing that such a friendship cannot be at all.
There is no unequivocal correct answer to the question of whether there can be friendship between a guy and a girl. After all, each approaches this individually and everything depends in each case on a particular person.
Not every person will be able to make friends with a person of a different sex, without mixing friendship with something more. There are men who seek friendship with a girl on the side for affection and comfort. And women, on the contrary, turn to a man for advice, help, support, share their problems and experiences.
The situation becomes clearer when on one side is the family, and on the other - friends. After all, the family cannot always be told about their problems, since the family will not always understand correctly and support it. For example, a woman will not always be able to confess to her husband about sexual dissatisfaction, to talk about problems of such a plan. Also, a man will not always be able to tell his wife that he liked a passing girl, or, for example, about his gambling hobbies, and even more so about big losses. With same-sex friendships, as a rule, it is not always possible to share everything. Perhaps it is for this reason that men seek to throw out their innermost thoughts to a female friend, and women reveal to a man their secrets of female nature that they will not understand.
There are many cases when heterosexual friends do not allow intimate relationships, believing that sex is not compatible with friendship, because after sex the relationship is not at all the same. And some men and women quite calmly combine sex and friendship, agreeing with the statement "friendship cannot be ruined by sex." But there are cases that not every friend fits the candidacy of a lover or lover.
You can argue and talk about friendship between a guy and a girl endlessly, the main thing in this matter is not to impose your opinion on anyone.