Habits are divided into harmful and useful, as we know. But there is still a separate kind of habits - those that prevent us from living a successful and happy life. And you need to get rid of them as quickly as possible.
Do not run after expensive trends. Do not buy a new iPhone on credit or for the last money. See the world wider. People who value you by external attributes are just fools. Live freely and in proportion to your abilities, and you will be happy.
Stop using your phone at night. It is much better to fall asleep with a book in your hands than writing another message. Your bed should be used for sleep and relaxation, and not for emotional nightly correspondence. Relax before going to bed, taking time out of your thoughts and planning for tomorrow. With this approach, you will sleep much better, feel more alert and work more productively.
Learn to say no. Stop agreeing to something that does not suit you, brings you discomfort, or simply does not cause any desire to do it. Do not agree to the requests of friends only out of a desire to please. Respect yourself, your time and energy, and take up only those affairs and projects that are interesting or beneficial to you personally.
Never say never. Here the law of meanness works. Usually what we have renounced happens to us, whether we want it or not. It is not known how this works, just do not tempt fate. Try to understand and perceive each situation in order not to categorically reject it and be able to understand.
Stop gossiping. It’s especially low to discuss a person’s appearance. No one chooses how to be born to him, with what abilities and social status. If everything was different, we would live in a world of ideal people. You will never know what path this person went, why he succeeded or did not succeed, and what exactly led him to this or that act. So it's not for you to judge.
Articulate your thoughts clearly and clearly. There is no need to grab a bustle and crouch; tell me directly and reasonably what exactly you want. This will add respect to you, and it will also become clear to another person what exactly you are seeking. Such an understanding will save time for you and him.