Today, a modern person has a career, many plans, average income, fashionable clothes, a good car
For some reason, friendship is far from the top in the list of priorities. But without friends it’s almost impossible to live. And people don’t appreciate it just because they have a poor idea of why they need friends.
What does friendship mean? On social networks, friends number in the hundreds, and for someone, in the thousands. But are there at least a couple of people among this crowd whom you can truly call your friends? Those who come to the aid in any situation, those who forgive you many wrongdoings, and certainly will not pay attention to your shortcomings or stupidities. Those with whom you think on the same wavelength, with whom you can talk for hours about anything. Those who have any business with them, whether cleaning the apartment after a holiday or going to the cinema, would be much more interesting. A friend is a person who for some reason is very close to you. And where do friends just come from? In childhood, everything is simple - a few walks, games invented together, eaten in half portions of ice cream - and now you are friends. In adulthood, everything is much more complicated. How much time do you need to spend together to really start trusting each other? How many activities you need to come up with that would suit both. But life is not at all what it was at 7 years old - intrigues and gossip are woven around, it’s hard to figure out whether a person is really sincere, or if he is simply hypocritical. A friend is a person you know very well. And, realizing how difficult it is for friends to appear, begin to value your surroundings more. Man is a social being; he always needs communication. Someone needs regular noisy holidays, someone just needs a couple of meetings with one or two people a week. One way or another, in order not to go crazy with loneliness, a person needs to communicate. The family, of course, gives communication, but constantly being with the same people, you get so used to them that you cease to appreciate. In addition, there are a lot of reasons for quarrels and skirmishes. This happens with friends, so sometimes you need to relax from each other. The need for communication, it would seem, will satisfy social events. But to exchange a couple of phrases with random acquaintances is not at all like talking to a friend for a long time. Neither long conversations on the forums, nor a conversation with a psychologist can replace friendly communication. Friends are needed to make you feel support, support. And they knew that you also provide them to someone - which means that you do not live in vain, you mean a lot to someone.