You can get answers when communicating not only directly from the conversation, but also paying attention to the facial expressions of a person, his emotions and expression. Notice the reaction of the interlocutor, and you will be surprised to find yourself a lot of useful information.
Instruction manual
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Everything that the interlocutor wants to answer you can be read on his face without the help of words. When asking a question or making a comment, pay attention to the face and eyes of the communication partner. He can nod his head or blink a little eyelashes, I agree. If the interlocutor is unsatisfied with something or doubts that you are right, he will narrow his eyes and thereby express his disapproval to you.
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When you tell a person something, and he directs his eyes up, then at that moment the person tries to present this picture in his imagination. Moreover, if a person looks up, he experiences kinesthetic sensations, trying to reproduce the smallest details. Looking down means that the person is immersed in inner experiences. A defocused and fixed gaze suggests that you are being evaluated for the moment. If in the end a person comes to unpleasant conclusions, he can slightly squint his eyes.
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If a person remembers something, trying to reproduce certain events in his memory, his gaze is directed left and up. When fantasizing or trying to plan the future, then the look turns up to the right side. This tendency is characteristic of many people, except that left-handed people can behave differently: looking to the left, inventing false information or planning the future, and looking to the right, remembering the past.
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You can read human emotions through the eyes. Surprise is expressed in wide-open eyes, while the lower eyelids are relaxed, and the upper ones are slightly raised. Fear is also expressed in wide-open eyes, but the lower eyelids become tense with this feeling. When a person sincerely laughs or smiles, small wrinkles appear in the corners of the eyes, and if laughter is just a cover for other emotions, then on your face you will not notice the squint of the eyes, but there will be only a grimace of a smile.
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When a person is angry, his pupils dilate with anger, and his eyes become piercing and rigid. True, the pupils can expand and in a state of excitement, happiness, love or excitement. Only then does the look become thoughtful and dreamy, and the eyes sparkle with happiness. With fatigue, longing, or depression, the person’s pupils become narrow, the corners of the eyes drop slightly, and the gaze becomes glassy and indifferent.
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It is important to note that if a person expresses any emotions in words, and his gaze remains completely indifferent at this moment, this is a clear sign of deception and hypocrisy. Although experienced deceivers eventually develop their ability to actively use facial expressions and expressiveness of the eyes.