In the life of almost every guy, love failures happen. And if the feelings are really strong, stop loving the girl you love will not work right away. However, there are methods that help speed up this process.
Instruction manual
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For starters, let's talk about what you should not do when trying to stop loving a girl - to go into a binge and act according to the method of "wedge them out with a wedge." Binge will not help quench the experience. On the contrary, very many people aggravate depression. In addition, carried away by this process, it is very easy to sleep. The "wedge by wedge" method will also bring nothing but superficial acquaintances. As a result, they only intensify the longing for her, because all the surrounding girls will seem "not like that."
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Now about where to start. With the desire to stop loving the girl you love. Oddly enough, but many people tormented by love do not take this step. It is possible that they simply do not understand that their desire can change something. Meanwhile, it is crucial. In order to articulate your desire, set aside time when no one will bother you, and think about what your unrequited feeling deprives you of: self-esteem, good mood, time, the opportunity to build new relationships, and so on. Realizing this, firmly tell yourself that you are going to stop loving the girl you love and live on without a happy, full life.
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After that, have the courage to part with everything that reminds you of your beloved girl: her photos, gifts, things forgotten by her. Erase “your” song from the player’s memory; don’t review the films you once watched together. Remove her from your contacts on social networks, erase her phone numbers. It will not be easy to do this, but after that you will feel that you are firmly on the path of liberation from the feelings that bother you.
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In the same way, avoid meetings and conversations with the girl, as well as with her friends, friends, and those people with whom you are used to talking about her.
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Having done everything so that the traces of your beloved girl disappear from your horizons, take up all the time of your life to failure, so that not even a minute remains in order to hit your thoughts about her. Take on a new project at work, sign up for the sports section, make new friends, find new activities. May your life not be what it was with her. Moreover, the main thing is to enjoy this new life. If you control yourself well, love will fade pretty quickly.
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Our today's topic is difficult and painful, namely, “How to forget your girlfriend”. Unfortunately, we have not yet come up with such a pill with which it would be possible to solve this problem without problems. We are all people, everyone has their own views on love and relationships, and what is given to one easily and simply can take a lifetime for others.
Useful advice
Probably, there is no single recipe for everyone how to forget the girl you love. I will tell you as a woman. In practice, most of my friends of men, parting with their lovers, made the same mistake: they continued to talk about them incessantly, and, even worse, compared their exes with other women.