Do you often notice that the innocent flirting of strangers with your boyfriend causes a storm of jealousy in you? For example, hugs when meeting a stranger seem too long to you, and suddenly you involuntarily start scrolling in your head thoughts about their possible romance: what if she likes him? But what if she is to him? Very often, girls are jealous of a guy not only for extraneous young ladies, but also for hobbies, work and friends. Sometimes jealousy makes the relationship unbearable, however, if desired, everyone can stop being jealous of her boyfriend.
You will need
- Hobby
- Self love
- Patience
- Nerves of steel
Instruction manual
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To stop being very jealous of a guy, you have to come to terms with the fact that in small doses it is a healthy feeling. Ownership is a natural feature of every person. Healthy jealousy is just a kind of reminder of how dear you are to a person, how you love him. However, when jealousy makes you feel miserable, and when it poisons your love - it's time to think about how to overcome it in yourself.
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Talk quietly with your boyfriend about reasons for jealousy. But do not attack him with these conversations at the slightest occasion. If something made you feel uncomfortable and experience really unpleasant emotions, calmly share these feelings with a man. Tell us what his actions, (or the actions of others) upset you. But be delicate, let him feel how dear to you.
3
Constantly work on trust to stop being jealous of a guy, especially if he never cheated on you. Do not chase your man at work or during meetings with friends. Accept that in his life there are always women (at work, in public transport, in the end) and some may like him a lot. Do not try to read his email and correspondence on social networks - this behavior indicates a lack of respect. In the end, individual messages that you read outside the general context can easily be misleading.
4
Do not try to occupy all his living space: constant SMS, emails and calls can make him feel tired from your presence.
5
To stop being jealous of any reason, try to ask outside opinions every time. If you think that your boyfriend is behaving suspiciously, consult with your friends. Perhaps their suspicions will seem unfounded to them, and you will realize that you were worried in vain.
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Independence will help get rid of jealousy. Make yourself a hobby, new friends, hobbies. New activities will help fill your life and save you from empty jealousy.