There are people whose communication is very difficult because of their unrestrained nature. Such people, as a rule, cannot be in a calm mood: they constantly shout and lose their temper.
Instruction manual
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Most often, a person resorting to a scream in a quarrel feels helpless and unable to reach mutual understanding with the interlocutor. Often this is an expression of fear, misunderstanding and powerlessness. In any case, one has to agree that the screaming person is most likely uncomfortable and he is doing his best to change it. Not noticing at the same time what makes communication impossible by his cry.
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Everyone has his own reasons for fear. You can scream from the fact that it is scary to be alone and lose your only loved one. This is exactly what small children do, because for them it is truly a tragedy: they alone will not survive in the big world. And what makes you constantly shift to the cry of an adult self-sufficient person?
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The reasons lying on the surface may look beautiful and fully justify it, but if you look deeper, most often it turns out that everything is not so wonderful. A constant cry speaks of moodiness, irritability, and restraint. And in the event that the screaming seeks to transfer the blame to the interlocutor, claiming that he was enraged, this indicates an unwillingness to change and bear responsibility for his actions. It is unlikely that someone will allow himself to lose his temper so much, for example, alone with five hooligans in a dark alley, but with subordinates at work, many are trying to make themselves unhappy victims of provocations.
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A constant cry also means that a person has already felt his impunity. They didn’t refuse to communicate and cooperate with him after the first and second, and maybe the third incident, and most likely he received from a man frightened by a surge of emotions what he could not achieve without a cry. Although such people claim that they cannot restrain themselves, most often this is not true. For those who really can not restrain themselves, there are sedatives, and these people do not have contact with healthy people. The rest use their invented helplessness in order to continue to receive everything they want and at the same time blame the interlocutors for provocations and lost kilometers of nerves.
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Most often, a person perfectly understands that screaming will not achieve anything, and therefore does not scream in situations where it is really meaningless. Victims of his bad character are either subordinates at work or family members.