Women in communication with the opposite sex try to be correct and ethical, gently convey information to them, not wanting to offend. However, men do not understand the hints. Because of this, there are numerous conflicts and discord between partners.
Women in communication with men are not used to speaking directly, because the main tool of the fair sex is seduction, a sweet smile, female tricks and hints. Ladies understand each other at a glance, sometimes even wondering at the fact how sensitively they can respond to inconspicuous hints of a friend. But men often have different priorities, but their behavior has a genetic justification.
Why men do not understand the hints
Male thinking differs from female thinking because of the vast historical experience that ancient hunters gained thousands of years ago. In those days when there was still no talk of any hints, the foundations of a male perception of the world were already laid. The representative of the stronger sex most of his time was engaged in obtaining food for the family - hunting for wild animals. This activity was extremely dangerous, it required enormous endurance and concentration. The main thing in it was one big goal - a mammoth, a bison, a bull, that is, any large animal. The male brain has since become accustomed to seeing one big goal and striving for its satisfaction. No hindrances, obstacles or hints can switch his brain to something else.
Women, by contrast, were gatherers. Their task was to see immediately as many small goals as possible - fruits, berries, herbs, nuts. Therefore, they were forced to notice everything, grab information on the fly. And today, girls can draw conclusions on the partner's inconspicuous mood, his awkwardly abandoned word, and atypical actions for him.
The behavior of modern man has not changed much since ancient times. And today men see concrete big goals: they need to get enough, relax, have fun, and do work. Women with their increased emotional background and fragmented attention are all different: the husband did not thank for the dinner, did not understand the hint about washing dishes and help around the house - this is a reason for resentment.