Cheating on a loved one is a betrayal. But betrayal, as you know, is not forgiven. Nevertheless, many people turn a blind eye to the betrayal of their halves.
Open marriage
There are several types of relationships that are characterized by this situation. The most harmless option: a partnership built on mutual interest, benefit, without emotional background. People have long cooled off to each other or have never experienced passionate feelings that suggest loyalty. In this case, there is nothing to forgive: the partners are independent and satisfy their desires without being interested in the personal life of the other side. It is unlikely that such a union can be called happy, but it is based on free choice. But more complex situations are dangerous because they limit the freedom of one of the couple.
Physical addiction
To change, you must have certain qualities: sexuality, charm, sociability, a lot of experience. It is not easy to part with a traitor, who is a bright personality, gives new emotions and "dizzy": such people know how to give pleasure and "attach" to themselves, and their promises are so easy to believe! As a rule, their halves sincerely love, suffer very much, but cannot cope with their weakness and forgive, forgive, forgive
.until the situation reaches a critical point, when the spell is dispelled, and African passion is replaced by indifference to the traitor.
Unnecessary victims
Fear of loneliness, doubts about one’s attractiveness, guilt are signs of low self-esteem. Such people will forgive anything, including betrayal. They are accustomed to the position of the victim; they cannot fight for their interests. Their partners take advantage of this depression and live for their pleasure. And the victim even gets satisfaction by forgiving another humiliation, having convinced himself that he is doing this out of nobility or in the name of his family. In addition, the victims need the sympathy of others - this is the only “language” they can communicate with the world, so that the next betrayal becomes almost long-awaited: it makes it possible to complain about fate, get sympathy and attention to oneself. Here you can be advised to turn to a professional psychologist who will help the victim gain self-esteem and learn how to live happily.