Childhood is the most cloudless time. When you were a child, all decisions were made by parents, and it completely suited you. No problems and serious reasons for a bad mood. But the older a person becomes, the more problems appear. Although most often these are small troubles that are not worthy of your attention.
Instruction manual
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Think about why you are upset most often. A problem is a situation in life that you are not happy with and that you want to correct. Due to your focus on the problem, you may be in a depressed mood and constantly think only about it. Try to understand why so often problems prevent you from living peacefully.
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Determine for yourself what troubles really cannot be ignored. Of course, if you were fired from work or something happened to loved ones, it is impossible to keep your spirits and smile. But there are not so many such problems, more often than not, a person makes a problem of his whole life out of a little trouble, and such a mood substantially poisons his life.
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Talk to your friends. Those close to you will help soberly look at the problem that bothers you, will be able to explain their vision of the situation and calm you down. You can not constantly close and not let anyone into your soul. It is better to talk, share your feelings with people you trust. Perhaps such a conversation will help you cheer up.
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Analyze your condition. If you understand that it is not possible to change your view of problems on your own and with the help of friends, go to the reception of a psychotherapist. The specialist will be able to find the right words to improve your condition. Do not hesitate to contact professionals, there is nothing wrong with that. The psychotherapist may advise you to go on to trainings, where you will meet other people and understand that it’s not only you who suffer from insoluble problems.
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Recognize that there is only one life, and you should not waste your time measured on problems, because they are solved and disappear, and the sediment from experiences and bad mood remains. Try to tune yourself in a positive way. Communicate more with friends, go to theaters, cinema, just walk around the city. Distract yourself from unnecessary thoughts, and soon it will become a habit for you. You will see, living with a smile on your face is much more pleasant.