Condemnation is one of man’s most common sins. How difficult it is sometimes to restrain oneself so as not to criticize relatives, friends and just strangers. Through condemnation, we rise above other people, but this is the wrong path that leads to self-destruction.
This is one of the commandments, which is very difficult for many to observe. In the process of communication, it is very difficult to do without condemning someone or responding poisonously. But there is one interesting pattern, the more a person collects gossip and judges other people, the more they condemn him.
We all complain that they speak of us in a negative way and spread rumors. But if you think about it, then most do the same. How to stop condemning, and rejoice in the fact that someone spoke badly of someone?
Love for "washing the seeds" arises from low self-esteem. In some ways, a person considers himself flawed, and through the denigrating of others, he is trying to rise. Thus, it multiplies negative thoughts and clogs the mind. When condemning another person, he seems to be turned off from the flow of his negativity and receives a small fraction of "joy", speaking poorly about another person.
In order to prevent this, you need to try to restrain yourself as soon as there is a desire to fool around about someone. At first it turns out to be difficult, it is difficult to maintain most of the conversations, then gradually the person notices that he begins to be interested not in the lives of other people, but in his own. It is no longer interesting who does what, how to dress, and what to say.