Often it is the attitude towards life that determines whether a person can achieve what he wants and become what he intended. Whoever says anything, only the people themselves are able to change the reality around them. Few will argue that some things can be looked at from different points of view and come to different conclusions. So why not take advantage of this to change your attitude to life and become a different person.
You will need
Desire and work on oneself.
Instruction manual
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Change your ideas about life. You do not need to believe that everything that you are told and shown about and determines the surrounding reality. If you look only at the news, very soon there will be an idea that in such a terrible world one cannot be happy. Give preference not only to news, but also to programs that talk about situations where people help each other by extending a helping hand.
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Before you assess any situation, take your time. Learn to question the first impression, especially if it is based on information received from someone. Compare different points of view and find a middle ground, forming your own opinion.
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Get used to evaluating all the time whether you are responding correctly to situations. The reaction to what happened is not always true. Very often we act under the control of emotions that cannot help in a difficult situation determine who is really right. Before you evaluate what is happening, distract for a few minutes, and then return to the problem. You have a different look at what happened.
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Rejoice at the fact that you have and purchase only what you personally like, and not imposed by advertising, becoming fashionable. All the stereotypes that you must have the latest iPhone or design stuff are nothing more than a tricky move by marketers that affects your ego and creates stereotypes not for your good, but for the good of those who want to sell it to you.
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Happy people attract only happy people, and pessimists are surrounded by unhappy people. Your thoughts and words give people the impression of you as a person. And few people like to be near a person whom they do not understand and who looks at the world differently. Therefore, you are always surrounded by people who are like you.
Useful advice
Man alone can change his attitude to life. Neither a partner, nor work, nor anything else will help him find peace and quiet in his soul and become different. Unless you change your worldview and replenish your knowledge of the world from various sources of information, you won’t be able to find peace of mind and love yourself.