Another writer Charles Bukowski noted that being alone is not the worst thing in life. Maybe it's time to reconsider your manic craving for the search for a soul mate and just enjoy freedom?
Instruction manual
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Find yourself. It would seem that we know ourselves as flaky - height, weight, eye color and so on. But loneliness will help to look inside yourself, to reveal all weaknesses and strengths, and will reveal our soul. It's time to find out who you really are and see yourself outside the image invented for others.
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Manage your own life. How many people were dissolved in the relationships and desires of another person, completely forgetting about themselves, about their dreams and ambitions. Think about yourself and what you want. A good partner should help you fulfill yourself, and not destroy everything in the bud. It is better to be alone than to regret unfulfilled things in old age.
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Self-improvement and trust. Left alone with yourself, you discern hidden talents in yourself and begin to develop them. Maybe it is thanks to them that you will win the favor of others. Confident people, those who are realized as individuals, are always very attractive.
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Learn new and unknown. Being out of relationships at the same time means not being dependent on anyone. You are free to choose a movie that is worth watching, a country to visit, a kitchen to try. The entire treasure chest of the world is open to you.
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Psychological health. Often, relationships not only do not build self-confidence, but vice versa. Take a break to get into a state of harmony.
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Create your own rules. Often, in a relationship, you are forced to put the comfort and desires of a partner in the first place. But who will think about you? Now you are free to do whatever you want, no one will condemn you for selfishness and no one will forbid anything.
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Love and respect yourself. The world will not love you if you yourself do not love. So says an old and wise truth. Starting a relationship and not loving yourself is a utopia that leads to a loss of self-esteem and life in constant oppression. Love yourself, and you will no longer choose a partner who treats you without due respect.