Compliments are loved not only by women, but also by men. And maybe even more than women. It just so happened that to compliment ladies is quite natural, but men are not accepted. So do not believe the men who say they don’t like compliments, they’re just not used to them.
Instruction manual
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In order not only to praise the man, but also to make it pleasant for him to know which of his qualities he values most. Traditionally, almost all men consider themselves courageous, strong and smart. Therefore, a compliment emphasizing true masculine qualities will always be pleasant. Especially from the side of your beloved woman. This will significantly increase male self-esteem and give him pleasure.
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In the process of long communication with a representative of the stronger sex, you can notice which particular personal qualities he is trying to develop in himself and with what character traits he is trying to stand out. It is these properties that should be emphasized in compliments. It will be a mistake to praise in a man what he is completely different from. If a person is far from playing sports, a compliment about his physical strength can be perceived very negatively.
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Correctly said compliment should not be like flattery or duty boast. Try to compliment him. For example, after he has done a gentlemanly act, praise him for it. And do not limit yourself to short phrases like "You are so polite" or "You are so strong." The compliment should be detailed, but laconic. Instead of the phrase "You are so courageous, " you can say: "I am attracted to your masculinity, because you can always rely on people like you." Instead of the phrase “You’re so smart with me, ” say: “How well you thought up, I would not have guessed without you.”
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Give the man compliments so that he does not doubt for a second their sincerity. Make sure that the note of irony does not slip in the voice. For the same reason, you should be careful when making comic compliments. In this case, it will not be out of place to look a man directly in the eye, and not past him. And do not forget about a sincere smile. Often, a little naivety and childishness when giving a compliment can convince a man of the sincerity of the boast more than the seriousness in his voice. Compliments made by an erotic voice are very pleasant for a man, but they should always be appropriate.
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Do not overdo it with praise. Very frequent and inappropriate compliments are initially perceived as flattery and insincerity, and eventually get bored. A compliment should emphasize any significant male act, and not be banal praise for any reason and without it. But you should not go to the other extreme - leave your loved one without words of admiration. Look for a middle ground in praise.
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The art of complimenting your man will help to influence him, re-educate him. Properly presented boast can inspire a man, make him do what he does not want or does not consider necessary. Or vice versa, to keep him from rash acts in the future.