Sometimes, due to conflicts at work or in the family, people become irreconcilable enemies. They plot against each other even when the subject of a quarrel, the “stumbling block, " has long been forgotten.
Instruction manual
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A feud with someone around you makes life very difficult. Constant nervous tension and stress very often cause various diseases. Moreover, both quite harmless types of gastritis and seborrhea, and severe ones - heart attack and stroke. To avoid this, it is necessary to resolve conflicts on time.
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If you have enemies, try to find a common language with them. Do not touch on the subject of conflict, look for common ground in other areas - hobbies, family relationships, etc. Just do not impose your communication. If you notice that you have something to talk about apart from enmity, come and talk. And if there is no reason so far, do not insist on a conversation. An empty conversation can be perceived as an occasion to resume the conflict.
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If the enemies do not go to reconciliation - try not to notice their intrigues. Pretend nothing is happening. Very soon they will get tired of mischief, because it is not the process itself that matters, but your reaction. It’s like in a children's team. If a girl is pulled by a pigtail, and she cries, they will continue to pull. And if they just turn away and go about their business, they will be left behind. People are not interested in performing actions that do not lead to the expected reaction.
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Try to understand why you became enemies with someone, find out the cause of anger and resentment. Perhaps the “detonator” of the conflict has long exhausted itself, and you experience negative emotions just out of habit. In this case, release the situation, stop thinking about it. Switch to work, family and children. Do your favorite thing, remember a hobby. Life is too interesting to waste time on stupid enmity.
Useful advice
Do not bring the situation to enmity. Almost all problems can be solved in a peaceful, civilized way. Put out conflicts in the bud, don't start quarrels first. Maintain a positive attitude, then there will be no enemies.