The situation is when you have been waiting all day for your beloved guy, getting ready, dressing up, and now when that cherished hour has come, the guy instead of a friendly smile meets you with a frown and pout, everyone knows. Do not get upset about this and get hysterical. Try to figure out the situation and help your lover.
You will need
- - sanity
- - patience
- - Woman's intuition
Instruction manual
one
Prepare a delicious and tasty dinner for your boyfriend, preferably before he arrives. He doesn’t have to see you running around the kitchen with curlers on your head. He must understand that they were waiting for him here, they were getting ready, and it is here that he can relax.
2
After dinner, give him time to be alone with himself. He may just want to watch TV while lying on the couch.
3
Distract him a little from thoughts, tell us how you spent the day, what new things happened, just don’t overdo it.
4
Prepare your favorite fragrant bath, but do not insist on a joint bath.
5
Do a relaxing massage. No grumbler can stand it, and who knows how your evening will end
note
Do not attack the guy with the questions, this can aggravate the situation, which will ruin your mood.
Do not try to blame him for having a bad mood; most likely, he has the least relation to this.
Remember: idle chatter can bring anyone to a migraine.
Useful advice
You can’t find one single sure way to calm a guy. Men are also people, but they have a different psychology. If the reason for his bad mood is truly universal, then just let him be alone, do not impose your communication.
It’s not worth planning a trip to the theater or the cinema this evening, and it’s better to postpone the trip to visit your mother or a party with friends.
After you understand that the guy has calmed down, be sure to discuss this situation with him, otherwise it may happen again.