In order for the long-awaited changes to happen in this or that area of our life, we need to make way for them! When our life is busy with old relationships, thoughts and things, there is simply no place for a new one. Therefore, do not be afraid to part with something that no longer brings you satisfaction. Be open to what life can give!
Space
In order to make room for a new one, we will carry out a general cleaning. Perhaps one you have never done before. You should get rid of those things that have not been used for a long time, which have ceased to please, which simply clutter up your living space.
Indeed, reluctance, fear of parting with the old suggests that we do not believe that something better can come into our lives. And if we ourselves do not believe, then we do not give life to fill our existence with things that will please us.
It turns out a contradiction. We all expect the good, we think that we deserve the best, and at this time we don’t let go of what we have now. Even if it brings frustration alone. Life will not change unless we change ourselves and change our attitude towards it!
Therefore, say goodbye to the old. In free space it is easier to breathe and dream. Let cabinets and pantries, shelves and mezzanines undergo a strict audit. We are guided by the principle whether a thing brings benefits, whether it helps in life. The usefulness of an object may be, for example, that it pleases us. We’re not cunning, we are shifting from place to place with thoughts, "maybe in a year
.need it!"
Do not forget that it is necessary to clean the space not only at home, but also where you work. If this is an office, clean your desktop, get rid of unnecessary papers and other garbage.
Relationship
As for our relations, here we must act in a similar way. If you are not satisfied with the partner and he, in turn, is not ready to change, then do not continue this torment further, it is pointless.
It happens that the relationship has been completed for several years, and we mentally continue to be attached to them, do not let them go. In this case, if we meet a potential suitable partner on our way, then he may feel that we are “busy”. And pass by!
Thoughts
Thoughtful disassembly also requires our thoughts! If we are not ready to work with our own head, then what changes can we talk about ?! We get rid of unnecessary, gloomy, pessimistic thoughts! This is not easy to do. The habit of thinking in a negative way has been developed for many years. The easiest way is substitution. We are learning to find positive aspects in everything that surrounds us. We try to communicate with those people who are pleasant to us and radiate optimism.
In order for a happy future to fully manifest itself in the present, you need to figure out your past. We get rid of everything that is bothering us, we become free and open to the new.