The ability to talk with people is one of the vital skills and needs of a person. But often people have difficulty communicating with each other, which seriously complicates their lives. By learning to talk with anyone, you will discover new horizons and opportunities.
Instruction manual
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Before you start a conversation, make sure that you are in a positive and cheerful mood. Avoid the state of coldness, isolation, in this case it is better to remain alone with yourself. If your mood is all right, feel free to make contact with a person.
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To learn to talk with people, you must first learn to listen to them. Immerse yourself in the sphere of interest of the interlocutor. If he needs to talk, give him this opportunity.
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Organize a comfortable space for communication with a person, for example, invite him to visit you, put him in a comfortable chair, pour tea. Be friendly, smiling, but at the same time keep your naturalness, do not play.
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Make contact with the person. Look him in the eye, on the face, although do not do it too closely, keep your distance. Touching will play an important role in building trust between people. At the meeting, hold the person by the shoulder, as if patting, and bringing a cup of coffee or handing a book, touch his fingers with his fingers.
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Show that you are interested in a conversation, ask questions at any moment of communication that is not clear to you. But do it correctly, neutral, so that the interlocutor does not feel a challenge or doubt. This is at least important for obtaining information, not to mention friendly contact.
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Try to understand the transmitted information from within, how a person understands and feels what he is talking about. Respect and understanding, as well as patience, are the three pillars of successful communication. In this case, you do not lose your own opinion, but expand your consciousness to the limits of the consciousness of another person. A similar practice will positively affect your personal development.
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Speak calmly, clearly, without rushing. Explain and justify your remarks, avoid the nebula and abstractness of statements.
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If necessary, repeat what was said, but in a slightly different form, this will facilitate understanding in the conversation if the topic for the interlocutor is not entirely clear.
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Present your idea, showing its positive aspects, including for the interlocutor. New ideas hurt a person a little, if they do not even indirectly relate to his life.
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Do not avoid communication in groups of people, then talking with one person will be an easy and natural activity for you. Join a circle of debates, disputes and negotiations, or play group games where proper communication is the center of meaning. Having learned to conduct dialogs in difficult game situations, after that you will be able to easily talk with anyone.