It is wonderful when love is mutual and brings only positive emotions. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. In our life, it also happens that two people have to part. But to part with a person does not mean to part with love. What to do if love decisively does not want to leave your heart, tormenting you day by day?
Instruction manual
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To get started, put up with what happened. It makes no sense to torment yourself day after day and night after night, asking why it happened and what would happen if
.Recognize that your relationship is a thing of the past, and the sooner you finish them mentally, the sooner the melancholy will leave your heart.
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Do not communicate with your loved one, and even more so do not look for reasons to meet, no matter how you like it. Erase his phone, tear letters, throw out your general photos. Do not listen to the songs that you listened to together. Music has a strong emotional impact, so if you listen to songs that remind you of your former love, you will not be able to part with it.
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Find a few minutes for yourself and think about the positive moments that parting brought you. For example, you have freed up your free time, which you can now spend on playing sports, your favorite hobby, communicating with people you love, and simply on yourself. Write a list of good points on a piece of paper. If you approach this business with full dedication, then towards the end of the list you will probably be very glad that your love has come to an end. Hang this list above your bed and look at it at every opportunity.
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Fill your day so that there is not a minute left for sadness and sad thoughts about lost love. Go headlong into a career, a hobby, and chat with friends. Try to be as lonely as possible.
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Look at life with optimism. Inspire yourself that the best of your life is yet to come, and true love will come. Look for positive moments in everything that is happening around you, watch good films, communicate with positive people. Drive the melancholy away, and very soon you yourself will notice to your surprise that you forgot to think about your former love.