To be loved is to be needed by at least one person. Without the love of others, a person does not see the point in life. Nature has programmed us to give love to each other and receive back, but not everyone is able to understand themselves and understand the mechanism of attracting the love of others. A few recommendations and common sense will help you deal with the problem.
Instruction manual
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Love yourself. Self-esteem should not go beyond narcissism, but you must accept yourself completely, with all the advantages and disadvantages. Your self-denial often repels others, and focusing on your own problems turns any conversation into a discussion of your unhappy life. As a result, you are left completely alone.
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People love those who love them. Give love: give compliments and gifts, help. In the end, just be polite and courteous, warn the desires of others and help as much as possible. You do not have to go out of your way to please someone, but this is not necessary: most likely, a friendly service will not require large sacrifices from you.
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Seek help. Although your help was disinterested, you can count on a return service. And during collaboration, you will have an easy conversation and get to know each other better. Be honest, but do not overdo it: you should not talk about your whole family and relatives on the first day to the seventh generation.
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Use your natural data. Clothing, cosmetics and accessories emphasize those parts of the body that you are proud of: long legs, thin waist, voluminous chest, eyes of unusual color, long hair, muscular arms or something else. But keep in mind: not only those who are of interest to you will see your charms, but also those whose attention you absolutely do not need. In this case, do not succumb to provocations, but simply smile or ignore the person.
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Stay yourself in all conditions. In any case, you will not be able to achieve love from everyone around you. However, trying to please everyone, you can miss the one who can truly love you, with all your flaws and habits.
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To the same extent, avoid categorical convictions of others. You can tell a person that you were offended in his behavior, but you do not need to remember. Slander is harmful both for you personally and for your relationship.