It happens that people around you think that you are a closed and closed person only because you are, in fact, shy. But why limit yourself when you can enjoy a life that is full of interesting events?
How to stop being shy and insecure?
Constraint is not only a barrier to personal growth, but also a way on a subconscious level to shift responsibility to another person. I won’t ask, I won’t approach him, I won’t ask, I won’t start a dialogue, I won’t tell other phrases either. Do you know them? Do you use them often? If so, stop immediately.
Remember! The golden rule of all time. Audacity second happiness.
Again, the main thing is to know the measure in everything.
The foundation of good relationships
People like it when the other person is taking part in the conversation, and not just nods approvingly in response. When chatting, you can attract a person to yourself. The main thing is to be open and sincere. If you are displeased with the person you are talking to, do not go against yourself. Why waste time on someone you are not interested in?
Man is a strange creature. Even psychologists cannot explain many actions and deeds. For example, how to interpret the fact that people want to fall in love with a modest, sweet person, but at the same time they are drawn with all their soul and body to a brazen, sometimes impudent image? Inexplicable but the fact.
Constraint is the result of low self-esteem. How can you not love yourself? You are the only one like you no longer! At least it’s worth respecting and appreciating yourself.
And remember! As you relate to yourself, so will others.
Self-doubt complicates life in many areas. You can’t meet the person you like, and who knows, maybe it was the same person? At the interview you are closed and cannot open, and who needs people in a prestigious company who are not able to defend their point of view? You are trite, insulted, and you, again, can not answer and stand up for yourself.
You just have to relax! People themselves reach for you. In the end, life is one! Live, rejoice, make mistakes and do not worry about trifles. Everyone is mistaken, but not everyone after the next rake closes in themselves.
Stop thinking about what others will say, how they look at you, what is their opinion? What's the difference? Who do you live for? For society or for yourself? Answer this question yourself. And everything will fall into place!