Moderate self-criticism is a good feeling that stimulates a person to self-improvement. However, if it acquires pathological forms, then it is necessary to work on yourself in order to get rid of self-flagellation.
Feeling guilty before others often dominates a person, which forces him to make excuses in his actions. When this happens too often, it starts to annoy other people. To get rid of this habit, you need to adhere to certain rules.
Believe in your rightness
Prove your case. Other people's opinions are also erroneous. It represents only their subjective opinion about you or on any issue. The ability to defend one’s point of view is a very useful skill.
Avoid hyperresponsibility
Some individuals have an increased degree of responsibility. They strive to control all lives. This position often leads to a breakdown and depression. Responsible only for your actions, life is an unpredictable thing.
Do not indict yourself
Do not scold yourself in front of others. People will do it successfully for you, and without you. Only speak about yourself in a positive way. People have such an interesting feature - they believe in the word.
A person who constantly apologizes and makes excuses for everything gradually causes irritation. The causes of various problems gradually begin to hang on him, and he turns into a scapegoat. In order not to become such, it is necessary to correct this character trait in yourself.