Each person judges on the basis of his experience and knowledge. And many people sometimes want to share and give advice with this “valuable” knowledge. "I’ll scam someone else’s misfortune with my hands, but I won’t put my mind into it." Do not worry too much about such recommendations. The opinion of one is not the opinion of all.
Of course, unsolicited advice is very annoying. But in any case, it is better to react calmly to such "help". Listen to the adviser, perhaps in his statements you will find something interesting for yourself, if this is not so, then try to skip the shameless remarks by your ears. People do not know all the features of your situation, and it makes no sense to explain, and it is not necessary. Anyway, each person will interpret everything in his own way.
The main ways to deal with unsolicited advice include:
- Ignoring You can pretend that you missed the "valuable information" past your ears and transfer the conversation in a different direction.
- "Valuable" tips in return. No one lives without problems, and each person has his own difficulties and "sore spots." Therefore, without difficulty, you can also "help" in response.
- Humor. It’s better not to go into conflict, humor is the best way out of this situation. Unwanted advice can be answered with some joke or joke, making the situation less stressful.
Everyone finds his way out in solving this problem, these are only the most common ways. It must be remembered that each person judges by himself about you, and in a rather narrow framework, so you need to understand that the opinion of one such adviser is not the opinion of everyone.