You and your soulmate are together all the time: on vacation, on vacation, during weekends and holidays, even you have one hobby. But there comes a period of satiety, when at times you are not interested or even unpleasant to be together. This is a completely normal state for many couples, you just need to correctly distribute time with each other.
Instruction manual
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Both women and men need a break from their soul mate. Although most often it is men who need such rest, and women can even be offended by young people because they spend time away from them. Rest from a person is a completely natural and necessary process. It is especially important for calm and often secretive people: they just need a recharge and not only from a loved one, but from all contacts in general. In another case, a person needs to change the circle of communication for a while: instead of a beloved girl or boyfriend, chat with his friends, relax in a circle of noisy company in order to discharge and distract from everyday contacts.
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How to arrange a rest from your soul mate? To do this, it is not necessary to leave for a whole week or spend a vacation separately from each other. It is only necessary to divide the space in the house and time into personal for each person and joint. If you live separately from each other, do not be offended by a soul mate because he or she does not want to see each day. Not only can a person have his own worries and problems that he simply does not want to talk about, but he also needs time for himself, time that he can devote to his interests and activities.
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If you live together, agree that sometimes you will spend time separately. For example, everyone will have their own friends or activities with which your couple does not have to meet at all. Get used to the idea that even in marriage, people should not be a single whole that does not have its own interests - you are still separate people, so you can spend your free time at least sometimes away from each other. So, it is quite reasonable to spend an evening with friends, walk alone, in silence read a book, watch a match with friends without sad sighs over your ear, get out fishing or play a computer game. A girl will be much more comfortable at a bachelorette party with her friends if her boyfriend is not nearby and listen to women's conversations and cute gossip.
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Allocate a common area in the house for spending time together, but at the same time equip a zone for each of you. It can be a favorite armchair, a desk that is used for creativity, or a quiet corner where you can read or draw. Respect each other’s space and don’t enter your partner’s “comfort zone”.
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Resting from a partner, both the guy and the girl receive a kind of relaxation by the accumulated and familiar emotions. It is as if they are plunging into another life, charged with a different mood, and then they can take a fresh look at their own relationships. If you apply such breaks in communication constantly, then you will never be fed up with your relationship, never bother each other. Rest from a partner is one of the most important laws of strong relationships, understanding and respect for the partner.