Remember that in any situation you need to try to remain human. No matter what happens, no matter how what is going on unsettle you, do not lose your face and change your own principles.
Instruction manual
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Do not forget about courtesy. Treat people around you properly. Remember that a well-mannered person can be seen by the way he communicates with other members of the society in which he lives. Near an intelligent person, some individuals themselves begin to behave better.
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Respect yourself and others. In order to remain a person in any life circumstances, it is important to treat yourself well. When a person appreciates his dignity, he will not allow himself to lose face. The same goes for other people. If you treat them with respect, you can count on a similar treatment on their part. But tact is the first condition for civilized relations between members of society.
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Do not lose your dignity. If some individual provokes you and tries to drag you into some kind of scandal, do not become like him, do not stoop to the level of a boor. Remember that inner strength is not manifested in aggression, but in the ability to do without its manifestations. Believe me, if you succumb to the influence of others and lose your temper, then you yourself will be hard and ashamed.
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Try to stay calm. Learn to control your own emotions. Acquire the habit of not following the feelings, but first assessing the situation. Perhaps after you realize that what is happening is not worth it so upset because of this, it will be easier for you to control yourself. Use breathing exercises to calm down at the right time.
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Remember the benefits of a positive attitude. Try not to focus on the negative aspects of life, but on its virtues. More often think about how wonderful reality is, how much good you have, what wonderful, loving and understanding close people are near you. Look for the good in everything, and it will be easier for you to remain yourself in a difficult situation.
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Make your choice. Create your own value system. Decide what is important to you in life. For a person who wants to be happy, spiritual comfort is needed. If you go against your own principles and beliefs for the sake of fleeting pleasure or profit, a conflict with your own conscience is inevitable. If you do not want this, always stay true to yourself.
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Keep up with the best. Some people allow themselves to deviate from personal rules because they see how others unscrupulously and unfairly behave. If we take someone as a standard, then let it be not an individual who has lost his human appearance, but your idol who has shown willpower, justice and firmness of character. Get inspired by the biographies of great people. If you have a moral choice problem, think about what your ideal would do.