In each of the women, nature has laid down a program for creating a strong friendly family, for having children. Men are polygamous in nature, and modernity has presented women with another difficulty - the unwillingness of a man to marry. The issue is sensitive, especially if the lack of a stamp in the passport bothers your loved ones, thereby giving you peace of mind. On this occasion, only one thing can be said - if he is really the one who is worthy to become your chosen one, then it is worth fighting for him.
Instruction manual
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Firstly, do not get hung up on thoughts about the wedding. Do not bother him with talks about wedding dresses, rings and your future life together. He simply might think that you do not need anything other than a wedding and a wedding dress. And no self-respecting man will want to play the role of a wedding doll.
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Instead, try to invite happy married couples as often as possible, then your chosen one will be able to see firsthand that marriage is not such a terrible and worthless thing.
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Another incentive for a wedding is the desire to have children. This instinct is laid by nature, and a woman, driven by maternal feelings, wants to find a companion that would make her family happiness. Talk with your chosen one, justify your desire to legitimize relations not only by the fact that morality requires it, but also by the fact that it is time for you to become a mother and you can no longer wait. A loving man must understand this.
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If you still do not understand, then find out why he is in no hurry to marry you. You may need a frank conversation that will put everything in its place.
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The reason for his unwillingness to marry may be an elementary fear of losing freedom. In this case, you must understand what exactly he means by his freedom, and whether you are able to keep it for him after the wedding. If so, then let him know, directly or veiled, that you will not infringe on his freedom.
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A man may be unhappy with you, i.e. some of your traits, features, habits. He loves you, but is not sure if he can put up with these shortcomings. If you really want to marry him, be prepared to change. But at the same time, it is not sin that will demand the same from him.
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Another factor that can hold him back is his financial situation. Firstly, his ambitions may not allow him to put the costs of the wedding on someone else's relatives. Secondly, he is not sure whether he is able to support a family on his salary. This is more a psychological problem than a financial one. Your task is to prove to him that you are able to help him in difficult times. If you prove that you can provide support, then the ice will break.
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The most difficult case is when a man psychologically very much depends on your mother, who does not allow him to leave her house, referring to weakness and helplessness, and in every possible way impedes, sometimes unconsciously, the creation of a new family. In this case, look for the “key” to his mother’s heart. Otherwise, such a situation could last for many years.