The special relationship with others, the manifestation of sympathy, participation and care, a responsive and generous attitude to requests characterize kindness as a concept. Manifestations of kindness can be very diverse - and it is not always done for good.
Instruction manual
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Kindness opens up many opportunities for spiritual improvement, but in everyday life it often does harm, because it is considered a manifestation of weakness. The kindness shown by a child and an adult is completely different. And just like that, each of the people puts his own, special meaning into this concept. In life, there is only black and white, everything that exists is a mixture of billions of shades. So human feelings are a combination of several, combined together emotions and perceptions. Pure kindness is a combination of a strong and active attitude in life, supported by moral and moral standards. It is so rare that they often talk about its degeneration - before people were kinder, more responsive.
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True kindness must be conscious and disinterested - it is impossible to do good deeds, demanding something in return. What is often confused with kindness is reliability and shyness, sometimes cowardice and pity. Sometimes an unaccountable fear of stronger personalities creates the impossibility of refusal, a person is afraid and hides his fear behind a mask of imaginary kindness. Kind parents can watch their beloved child slip into the abyss, connecting their lives with drugs, indulging him in this because of pity and inability to refuse. Many sympathize with homeless people asking for bread, served, well aware that their money will go to purchase another portion of alcohol. This is not kindness, it is a mixture of weakness, selfishness and fear.
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Real kindness can awaken in people an almost forgotten desire to trust, to open your soul, to help without looking back. It is possible to develop kindness in oneself, but more often it is an innate quality, on which actions and circumstances can “overlay” over the years, changing priorities and values. In the power of any person to begin to change life for the better - to show sincerity towards children, people who are weak, weak. With the help of kindness, you can cleanse your soul from anger and despair, because it manifests itself only in actions. To get something in life, you must first learn to give - a part of your heart, material well-being, a piece of soul.