They do not criticize only the dead and nothing representing people. Once a person succeeds in anything, a team of ill-wishers will immediately form around them. It is impossible to deal with gossip and constant criticism, you can only learn to perceive them correctly.
Instruction manual
one
To get rid of unconstructive criticism, learn to keep secret your success from most people. Only relatives and close friends are able to wish you well, even if everything is much worse for them. Colleagues, “false hostesses” and enemies, even if they do not clearly show their hostility, they will not miss the opportunity behind you to present your merits and merits to others in a distorted form. Thus, they are "rehabilitated" at the expense of you, reducing the significance of their own failures. If you manage to figure out such a critic spreading rumors, don’t answer him the same way - just stop talking to him. So you will deprive him of access to information, thanks to which he weaves his dirty intrigues.
2
Unfortunately, even native people can abuse destructive criticism, sincerely thinking that they will make you better and point out mistakes (without bothering to find the right words and going straight to insults). But in this way they only lower your self-esteem and have a negative impact on you. Hearing your address remark, bordering on rudeness, in no case do not react to it with an emotional explosion. What for? Nothing but negative emotions and worsening relationships, such a skirmish will not bring. Better just keep silent and pretend that you did not pay attention.
3
The best response to constructive criticism is an apology for your own behavior, if the situation requires it and thanks for the comment. If several people point you to the same mistake in behavior, then it really takes place. Think about how to fix it as soon as possible. Respect the words of criticism with calmness, even if they offend you for the quick, because at heart you yourself admit that you are wrong - a negative reaction is inappropriate here.