Any useful skills need to be honed, and bad habits eradicated. The same applies to the ability to communicate. Some people are used to the role of a shy person and are not trying to change that. Ease of communication does not come just like that, here, as in any business, practice is needed.
Instruction manual
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Imagine that your brain is a computer, and you are a user. The brain, as he is used to doing, includes a modesty program every time you find yourself in a certain situation. Your task, as a user, is to stop the program that automatically starts up. For example, when you come to a party, don’t sit in a quiet corner, go straight to the center of the crowd. If you are in the company, do not be silent, ask the interlocutors a couple of questions.
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Talk to a stranger, it is better to let it be a random passerby. You are unlikely to meet him again, so feel free to train in communication.
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Do not miss a single opportunity to chat with people. If you were invited to speak, agree, tell funny stories when you are in the company. Greet people you often meet with but never greeted before.
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If you want to talk or get to know a specific person, but are embarrassed to do this, go to the people with whom it is easier for you to speak, chat with them. After such a practice, uncertainty will disappear.
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When speaking to the public, do not memorize the finished text. It will look fake and uninteresting. Use records only to view the sequence of material. Remember that the public is interested in your successful performance, and some of those present did not even dare to go on stage.