Talking about your feelings is difficult, especially if there is no confidence in reciprocity. It is very difficult to survive the refusal, so you can not speak directly, but only hint to the guy that you love him and then look at his reaction.
Instruction manual
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A lot depends on what kind of relationship you have. If you barely know each other and see each other only a few times a week, it will be difficult for you to make it clear about your feelings. But if you are old friends and you have feelings for him, it will be much easier for you to hint about it.
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You know your friend perfectly, have an idea of his interests and tastes in girls, you often talk and you can discreetly bring up a conversation on the topic “Imagine what
"and then ask an exciting question in this vein. Behave like a girl, dressing accordingly and giving up purely male occupations. If you previously discussed his girls, interrupt him at the next story and say that it’s unpleasant for you to listen to it. To questions about keep silent about the reasons or you can honestly admit your feelings.
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You can hint with gestures and glances. A long look in the eyes, a laugh at all the jokes, frequent smiles. In addition, you can build eyes: look at him, and when he looks back, quickly look away. Ask for help with something, such as a computer, or teach you something that he knows how to do well. In this case, you will spend a lot of time together, and you will have the opportunity to show your sympathy. Touch him more often, hold your hand, do not move away if he touches you.
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Present a gift for the holiday. In this way, you can report your interest in it, but approach the choice of this subject wisely. You can give a card on February 14 in the form of a heart, and then look at his reaction. If the reaction is negative, and you do not see interest or joy in his face, you can give cards to several more young men with the phrase that this is a friendly gesture. So you can save face and find out his opinion about your feelings.
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Touch it more often. An accidental touch with your hand when you pass by, if you repeat this three to four times at a short interval, he will soon realize that this is not just. A hug at a meeting or a kiss on the cheek for joy is appropriate in relation to a friend, but if the duration is longer than usual, the guy can understand a hint of sympathy.
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But you should not have illusions of male discernment. Usually the guys do not understand the hints, and even if any suspicions creep into their heads, they may think “Yes, it cannot be” and this will erase all your efforts. Therefore, it is better to have the courage and honestly communicate your feelings. But be sure to do it in private.