A friendly company is very important to a person, no matter what he says about his love of loneliness and solitude. This is the source of energy and joy that helps each of us to create and live. It is not so easy to find a company of people that would suit you harmoniously, but if you are ready to go looking, use our helpful tips.
Instruction manual
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To begin with, think about what is the reason that you still have not got a friendly company. Is it because you devoted all your time to work, work, study, or are there some qualities in you that repel people around you? Try to identify the most objective reason for your situation.
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If you realize that you are not too friendly and welcoming, or you have other negative personality traits, start working on yourself. Get rid of qualities such as criticism, rudeness, isolation, distrust, dishonesty, and jealousy.
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Love yourself, understand that you are an amazing person, worthy of the company of the best people. Those around us relate to the way we treat ourselves, and if you want to get love, respect, care and trust from others, you must learn to experience yourself.
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Remember that friendship is a responsibility. Therefore, be prepared to bear all the hardships of human relations, and only then will you be able to share friendly joy. Learn to give, then you will receive - this is the golden rule of friendship.
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When you are psychologically prepared, go search. Friends can meet at any stretch of life, but making independent attempts to find them is also useful. One of the most common is to attend events that are close to you in spirit (for example, concerts of your favorite bands), and get to know people you like from those around you. Having talked about your favorite hobby, most likely you will be able to switch to more personal communication.
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Try to be open and ready for unexpected meetings. For example, you walk alone in the park, and here an unfamiliar company invites you to ride a bicycle together or participate in a flash mob. Your habitual reaction may be negative, but it is in such an unusual situation that you have the opportunity to meet new friends and change your life. Therefore, if you have free time - agree!
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Co-employment in an interesting business, as a rule, always connects people and creates new friendly companies. Dancing, sports, yoga, hiking and creative clubs, massage courses or a foreign language - all this will help you not only to enhance your skills and develop self-esteem, but also to meet friends.
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There are many virtual interest communities in social networks of the Internet, whose members are often found in reality. Do not be afraid to join them, because now people of completely different social levels, ages and hobbies are participating in such associations, and most likely you will also find someone to talk to and share something important with.
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If it is difficult to immediately find and join a friendly team, then direct your searches to one person who will be close to you, and with whom you can find people of interest to both of you. Together, going forward is much easier and more fun, namely simplicity, openness and cheerful enthusiasm will attract people with whom with time you can create a strong and friendly company.