Every day a person is forced to maintain relationships with different people, but not with everyone it turns out to find a common language. There are times when to refuse to communicate is simply impossible, and you need to be able to think "on the same wavelength." People can radically differ in their outlook on life, behavior and character, and therefore it makes sense to learn to think differently.
Instruction manual
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If you are in a company with a comedian, forget about your serious nature and practice witticisms. Funny and sociable people appreciate humor and prolonged laughter, even when it is not very appropriate. Such pranksters cannot sit even an hour without an interesting story or jokes, although not everyone is successful and ridiculous. Feel free to experiment in developing wit and communication skills. Do not be embarrassed if not everything works out right away. Those who like to make fun of everyone and everything, quickly switch to new jokes and look for new reasons for conversation and laughter. Learn a light attitude towards life and indestructible joy. Actively communicate and pay attention to the little things. As you know, much lies in the details.
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If your friend is constantly in a calm and equanimous state, you can begin to meditate with him and not strain about topics for conversation. Such people are not prone to violent emotions and harsh criticism. They love the measured pace of the conversation and a detailed analysis of the situation. Learn about the interests of your interlocutor, listen carefully and ask leading questions. Express your position in detail on an interesting topic for you, and you will become an educated person. If plus everything, you will render a minor service, you will be perceived as a reliable person with whom it is pleasant to communicate and deal with. Mutual understanding in this circle will be provided to you. Be calm.
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When dealing with an energetic person whose emotions beat over the edge, and the mood changes seven times a day, always be on the alert. Temperamental people tend to start with a half turn, and they are able to out of the blue to make a real scandal. Do not take the unrestrained stream of thoughts seriously, otherwise you will not be left with a wet spot. Respond to scandalous statements with humor or indifferently switch the conversation in a new direction. The interlocutor, not seeing emotions, will direct his aggression to another unfortunate one. Do not hold evil on such persons. At the very least, they quickly forgive themselves for a sharp change of mood. Prepare a list of possible topics for discussion in advance and set the direction for the conversation. In the future, you will only need to nod and agree periodically. Temperamental people have a strong need to express all their thoughts and splash out accumulated emotions. Someone else's opinion is not particularly interested in them. Learn an expressive manner of behavior and develop the ability to defend your point of view. Take over the temperament.
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With creative people, forget about patterns and primitive conversations about the weather. Creative personalities love a non-standard approach and appreciate the original way of thinking. Feel free to express your opinions, suggest ideas for joint projects.
Be sure that in any case you will not be condemned. Develop skills of different patterns of behavior. Over time, getting used to this or that role, you can better understand the nature and type of thinking of others. Thanks to observation and a creative approach, you can learn to think like everyone else. Start thinking creatively.