Many people suffer from excessive modesty, a sense of awkwardness, or a feeling of self-doubt. In any person, modesty manifests itself in different ways. Someone loses their temper, someone has a faster pulse, and someone is speechless.
Instruction manual
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Make an effort on yourself and don’t worry about what other people think about you. People are judged not by some external manifestations, but by what kind of person is in reality.
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You do not need to demand perfection from yourself, you need to be yourself. Look at your strengths and weaknesses as objectively as possible.
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Evaluate honestly other people, do not ascribe to them undeservedly bad intentions about you. Be sure - people treat you on an equal footing.
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Try to be sociable, smile more often and greet other people. Learn to start a conversation yourself.
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Treat yourself with a sense of humor if you suddenly say something wrong. No need to focus on this, continue the conversation.
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Set yourself only real goals, learn to engage in conversation with others, communicate with strangers at ease and easily.
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If you will need to speak in front of a large audience, prepare in advance for this event. Dress tastefully so as not to feel uncomfortable about this. People, moreover, will be very pleased to look at you. Communicate visually with the audience, convince them that what you are communicating is very important to them.
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Learn to develop a conversation with the interlocutor, ask his opinion, give him compliments.
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Look in the mirror at yourself and mentally describe yourself from the best side. Look: maybe you need to change something in yourself, for example, a hairstyle. Talk with your loved one about this. The main task is to find good qualities and traits.
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Modesty is to some extent present in every person, but it is not necessary to give her power over himself. Than to lock yourself in solitude, it is better to free yourself from shyness and enjoy communication with other people.