Most likely, you know what can make you happy. You do not know only how to keep this state. Is it always possible to be happy? Maybe. Moreover, our most important duty and mission in this life is to be a happy person.
How to achieve a state of happiness? First of all, you need to say goodbye to old installations. The most ingrained and incorrect attitude is to think like this: "When I reach my goal, I will be happy."
The goal can be anything. For example, a girl thinks: “I’ll marry, and then I will be happy, ” in the end she leaves. He begins to think now: "Here is the face of the child, then happiness will come!" But to think so is wrong! Or for example, a man thinks: "I will get this position, and then everything, happiness!" or "I’ll move to another country and be a happy person." But having reached its goal, after a fleeting joy, a void and confusion arise inside a person. Why it happens? Let's figure it out.
Remember once and for all, this is a destructive and fundamentally wrong attitude - "first the goal, then happiness." Imagine that you have achieved everything now. What you most desire. Imagine that you already have wealth, and fame, and beauty, and health. What's next? What will you wish for? What do successful and wealthy people want? What do happy people want and how do they live? Ask yourself these questions.
Remember situations when your desires and goals came true, and you did not get happiness from it, or at least satisfaction, you were disappointed. When for some reason the problems remained the same, or the state of joy from the received goal quickly disappeared. Such is the law of this world - the state that we call "happiness" from the goals achieved, in fact - a weak, temporary, passing state. It is not able to make a person happy forever! And it makes no sense to pursue the fulfillment of your goals all your life, they may even turn out to be false, imposed by someone or simply not bring long-awaited happiness!
So how then to become a happy person? To understand that happiness is a special state of mind. Happiness is a resource state that can do real miracles! Create your own reality! Everyone can enter this state of happiness, joy and creation. To do this, you need to determine for yourself a new attitude - "first happiness, then the goal."
For example, a girl who has realized and accepted this concept will marry. But it’s not just getting married, but getting married to a person who suits her so much that it will be difficult to believe it! With whom she can walk side by side all her life, build the right partnership, can learn to love for real.
What is the invaluable advantage of such a concept of happiness? When you are in a state of happiness, joy - you control the situation. Imagine that you have a birthday, you are on a holiday. Around loved ones and friends, everyone congratulates you, you are in a happy state, accept gifts, communicate, laugh. And suddenly someone comes up to you like that without a mood, tells you something not quite pleasant. How do you react? Most likely, you will not even pay attention to it and soon will completely forget about it. You definitely won’t sort things out! Thus, the great power of this state acts. So you need to live every day.
According to this principle, life should take shape! Always be in joy, include this mystical understanding of happiness. In a person who lives in a happy state, goals begin to come true. Moreover, his true goals come true, and false ones coming from a false ego fall away by themselves. And as a result, the fulfilled goal will not bring disappointment or emptiness! The laws of this world act so that all the chances given from above begin to take shape by themselves in a happy person. He has a special vision of everything, a completely different view of what is happening, other values and principles. By themselves, the right ideas, the right words arise in the head. The environment changes, new friends come to life or old ones come back. In general, everything begins to take shape in the best way! Moreover, this is happening absolutely fantastically, even in the wildest dreams we cannot imagine how exactly everything will happen!
It is very important to write down all the miracles that will begin to happen to you when you accept this concept of happiness in a separate notebook. In moments of disbelief or doubt, this will help to remember and make sure again that life in this state is completely different. Magic, full, bright, fair, amazing and beautiful! Accept this "principle of joy", feel this state of happiness on yourself! And you will never want another life anymore, this is the most delicious and amazing thing that can happen to a person! This is the highest goal in the life of everyone, and the most important purpose of any person!