A person creates a family and builds family relationships because he needs an intimate, emotionally positive and confidential communication. It assumes that both partners will seek mutual understanding, sympathy and compassion for each other. Such relationships are based on a mutual desire to penetrate the complex mental world of your partner and be in resonance with him, on the same psychological wave. If this happens, then such a family will withstand all the storms of life and adversity.
Instruction manual
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Create a warm, trusting atmosphere in your family. To do this, you need to be sincerely interested in the affairs and hobbies of your spouse. In a family where there is a tradition of sharing and listening to each other, husband and wife feel psychological comfort. Such mutual support is the basis of family relationships.
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Be attentive to each other. Who else but you, a person who knows his spouse well enough, can notice that he has had troubles that he does not want to talk about, simply because he doesn’t bother or upset you. But this should not be, put in the first place not your own peace of mind, but the joint overcoming and resolution of difficulties and problems, they should be common.
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Examine your partner, you should know what he likes, what annoys. There are no trifles here - the more you recognize him, the easier it will be for you to take into account all the nuances in communication, the better you will know all the motives of his actions and predict them.
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Feel free to show your feelings towards your spouse. This is especially true for less emotional men. Please do not forget that the emotional and psychological needs of women are increased, so she should always feel loved. Satisfying the need for love allows you to overcome those housing and material difficulties that may arise, especially at the first stages of life together, and it is precisely these that cause the dissolution of many marriages.