Constantly in the spotlight is not given to everyone. Indeed, in order to become the soul of the company, to attract the views of others, you need to not only adhere to a certain manner of behavior, but also be in a good mood, radiate self-confidence, and sincerely enjoy communicating with people.
Instruction manual
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Take care of yourself. The fastest way to draw attention to yourself is to stand out with an unusual appearance. Try to find your own style of clothing that will be different from most, pick up unusual jewelry and accessories, decide on a trendy haircut.
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Cultivate. Read more, replenish your vocabulary, improve your speech. Memorize interesting judgments, aphorisms, funny stories and jokes so that, on occasion, you can revive the conversation, cheer the company. However, maintain self-esteem, do not allow yourself to laugh at yourself, show firmness of character. Keep up to date with the latest innovations in various fields, monitor the situation in the country and in the world. Find for yourself a hobby that could be demonstrated to others. For example, learn to play a musical instrument, show tricks, tricks.
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Overcome your shyness. If you are in a company with strangers, go to someone and try to find any common topic for conversation.
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Communicate as often as possible with people of different ages. Constant practice in communication will help you feel more confident, will dispel your complexes and shyness.
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Learn to relax and rest. Stop practicing self-criticism. Do not think constantly about unfinished work, about solving problems. When communicating with people, focus on the environment, tune in to a pleasant conversation.
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Have fun from the heart, if appropriate. When your interlocutor is trying to joke, cheer him up, do not stay serious. You can make any contacts and stand out with the help of laughter and a smile.
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Be an open and sincere person. Share positive emotions with others. And in case of problems with friends or relatives, try to support and help.